Or his stumbling block?
Are you someone who helps him overcome his trials or are you one of his trials?
Does he thank God for you or does he pray for God to help him put up with you?
Are you someone who builds him up or do you tear him down with your criticism?
If someone asked your husband if he was reverenced/respected by his wife what would he say?
Are you his HELP-meet or are you expecting him to be yours?