Does *HE* feel that you follow him anywhere?

How would he feel if he had to come home and tell you that something came up and you had to move out of the country?

Would he be afraid that you would refuse to come?

Would he be afraid that you would come but that you could not handle it emotionally?

Or would he be confident that even if you didn't want to,you would follow him anywhere and support him in whatever he decided was best for the family? (Need I put a disclaimer here that I don't mean you should support him if he wanted to murder someone or rob a bank?)

Does he KNOW that you are committed to being his Help-meet?

That you would never DREAM of not following him?

For the record,I would h.a.t.e to move out of the country.I love where I live,I have no desire to move and well,I could give you a million reasons why lol.My husband gets my opinion on just about any decision he makes.He is looking at tractors right now,he loves for me to look at them with him and let him know which ones I like/dislike.It would seriously sway his decision if I didn't like a certain tractor.I love that :).

Anyhow.....:) (Brandy,I smile and think of you every time I say "anyhow".)

Anyhow, all that to say that if my dh DID for some reason make a huge decision like that without consulting me, I would trust that it was what he thought was BEST.He KNOWS that he could not shake me if he WANTED to lol.After serving the Lord,(and serving my husband is part of this),there is NOTHING more important to me in THIS life than being his help meet.I would follow him to the end of the earth!!

I hope that you feel the same about your husband and that he KNOWS it!!!

Are You His Support........

Or his stumbling block?

Are you someone who helps him overcome his trials or are you one of his trials?

Does he thank God for you or does he pray for God to help him put up with you?

Are you someone who builds him up or do you tear him down with your criticism?

If someone asked your husband if he was reverenced/respected by his wife what would he say?

Are you his HELP-meet or are you expecting him to be yours?