Or his stumbling block?
Are you someone who helps him overcome his trials or are you one of his trials?
Does he thank God for you or does he pray for God to help him put up with you?
Are you someone who builds him up or do you tear him down with your criticism?
If someone asked your husband if he was reverenced/respected by his wife what would he say?
Are you his HELP-meet or are you expecting him to be yours?
Sometime ago my dh couldnt find a job so i went to work and i knewn he was depressed because he was used to supporting us and made goood money doing it.I asked him what he thought about getting his cdl license!He said no .He pretty much let me known he didnt have the brains!But i knewn better and didnt drop it i knewn he need it well at some point he said he would go and he went and i sold my car so he could go he was gone 6 weeks and graduated at the top of his class.He was supposed to stay and go over the road but called home and said how much he missed us i said why dont u just come home?He hung up with out a word i thought he was angry with me.I thought ooh no WHAT HAVE I DONE i cryed and sat by the phone for 6 hours just wishing he would call back i didnt mean to discourage him, Well the door opened and i thought one of the girls was going out side so i jumped up to stop them.And their he was teehee he came home .We sat and talked he told me all about the class he was so excited about it and showed me his new cdl license.And he found a job the next day and has been their 7 years he told me he was thankful that i thought so much of him.He reminded me of this when i read him this post .he said i believed in him when nobody else did! cookgirls4
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